Second, in my experience mormons have been some of the kindest people I've ever had the privilege to know, and they have not lived up to the cult image you describe. Already answered Not a question Bad question Other.
In the endвthe very endвGod loves my husband even more than I love him.
This is a very delicate territory, so tread carefully. Whenever you bring something up, they'll say if it's not on lds.