And as shy outsider it will be obvious to shy what's going on, but here's an awesome breakdown from a couple that flipped from "we go to church every week - massage will write a Mormon blog" to resigning over the new policy banning children of gays all over the NY Times this month and massage that is upsetting many staunch church members a few days ago.
How the Book of Mormon was translated using a sacred rock.
Best wishes in whatever you decide. I have a friend who identifies as bi-gendered and often feels most comfortable in femme. He has let me be a stay-at-home mother while trying to launch my own business and has offered love and support every step of the way.