He then proceeded to beat the shit out of her for a decade.
I have searched for a blog, or some support group for men struggling to figure out how to survive being married to a female physician, especially of an extremely demanding subspecialty. He is not a member and has told me he is not going to convert.
I will keep you posted and thanks again for your thoughtful response I really appreciate it. And a happy ChristmaChannuKwanzaKah to everyone.