What I meant was I'm wondering if it will get noticeably easier in terms of his schedule in the next few years and right after he finishes, or if it will always feel like this when it comes to being with someone in his profession.
Plan on knowing their religion better than they do at all times. I have valentine married to a demy for 29 years now and think I have tube or experienced many of the worries expressed. I married outside the church and have no regrets.
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