They may need much more than casual contact with the church to see the truth in it. You'll take out the trash, coordinate all the home repairs, pay all the bills, do all the yard work and generally work your ass off until you're emotionally and physically drained.
I decided not to answer his calls for some time to think.
Anyone who's a decent human being should be able to know right from wrong and act accordingly. But my son will be 14 then and I will feel that I've already done the work of raising a child.